Passive or Active: How do you live life?


It’s the typical time for ruminating over what we’ve been through in the previous year (and imagining what lies waiting for us ahead).
 
Typically, we focus on what’s happened to us-as determined by circumstances beyond our control: luck, the economy, weather, and the actions of others.
 
That’s normal, but it’s the passive voice.
 
Why bring up grammar? Because the passive voice is typically problematic for writing as well as living.
 
Not sure about the passive vs. the active voice?
 
An example of active voice is “I build my own career” [the subject of the sentence “I” performs the action expressed in the verb], as opposed to the passive, “My career has been determined by others” [the subject “my career” is being “acted upon” by the verb].
 
Unclear on the grammar? Take the Quiz.
 
It’s about agency: who has the power in your sentences, your thinking, your life? Are you the subject or have you abdicated the power to forces outside yourself?
 
Because the passive voice doesn’t just afflict our writing: passivity is passing the buck, it’s not taking charge or responsibility for our situation and for our future.
 
The power is in the action. Focus on the doing.
 
For this week: Celebrate the start of the New Year in the ACTIVE voice! Examine your bio, grant proposals, and your thinking to weed out the passive voice and replace it with the active voice.
 

Angela Myles Beeching

Author of the acclaimed “Beyond Talent: Creating a Successful Career in Music,” Angela Myles Beeching directs the Center for Music Entrepreneurship at Manhattan School of Music and maintains a thriving private practice focused on results-oriented coaching and consulting. Previously, Ms. Beeching directed the New England Conservatory Career Services Center and was a consultant to the Indiana University Jacobs School of Music. Check out her weekly Monday Bytes blog for a regular boost of inspiration and career tips.